--Saturday, 29 April 00--
At work at 8 AM, the Internet connection was down, processed documents,
had a quick lunch with Alan & George -- I wonder what Alan has against
lunch?
Smile stopped by work to pick up the printed version of the schedule I
had typed and I gave him copies of pictures I had taken of him and his
family as well.
 |
|
Bread in a bakery window as it is usually displayed. The bread everywhere
in Prishtina is excellent except at the breakfast meal provided
by the Grand Hotel.
|
When I got back from work around 6:30 I went out and got a Herald Tribune
and an Economist and settled into the Brooklyn, where they have icy cold
Skopska beer. I have become such a regular that as I approached the waiter
saw me (there were no other customers) and I signaled a "Yes"
and I had a beer, a cold beer, on the table before I was even settled
into my plastic garden chair.
I made a few notes and then read the paper (not much news I thought).
I was into the early articles of the Economist when Allen Maclean came
up on my left just as someone put his hands over my eyes without touching
my glasses. I guessed it was Smile and I was right.
They sat down and we had a round of beer and chatted. Then Allen said
he was going to have dinner and asked what we were going to do. I looked
at Smile who stared back at me in a particular way that I took to mean
that he was interested in having dinner with Allen. I wasn't hungry but
decided to accommodate Smile, and since Allen said that he was going to
a good pizza place near the OSCE building, I decided to go along if only
to find out how good the pizza was. Smile joined us without saying anything.
We walked over to the restaurant that we had rejected on the evening of
Smile's birthday because of the smoke in the air and went inside. It was
just a shade too cool to sit outside without a coat and the air inside
seemed relatively clear.
The meal was very pleasant and Smile contributed as best he could given
that he probably got only 30% of the conversation. In Smile's linguistic
condition, thirty percent comprehension, patience with not getting very
much, and trying to participate whenever possible amounted to a useful
educational experience. Smile told us two dirty jokes, one of which survived
translation and one of which didn't. I told my "duck" joke and
Allen got a kick out of it. It is essentially untranslatable but Smile
seemed to like it.
When we walked back to the lobby of the Grand and were subjected to the
wanding by the security men at the front door. Allen saw Al Woodhouse,
head of the tax division and went over to him. I waited for Smile to get
through security and then suggested we go into the bar.
He asked me about a letter from me inviting him to come to see me in Chicago.
I said that I would be willing to write such a letter but that the American
Embassy in Skopje might still say NO to a visa. "And why NO?"
he asked. "Because so many people want to come to the US," I
said omitting a discussion of economic migrants.
After a while, Allen joined us and said that he wouldn't have a beer because
he was going upstairs. Smile insisted and Allen took a seat but not a
beer. We chatted and Allen said that he could not have lunch at Smile's
house since he was leaving on Monday and had thing he had to do on Sunday.
Allen asked Smile why he was out and Kimeta was at home. Smile gave a
very pleasant and equally sexist response about him asking Kimeta why
she should go out, that she should stay in. I told Allen that the culture
here was strongly male biased.
Allen suggested that we (Smile, Kimeta, he and I) get together the next
day at 5 PM in the lobby and go out to dinner from there. We agreed and
Allen excused himself to go to his room.
 |
|
For a small city Prishtina contains more than its share of unusual
architecture. Above is the university library, a structure with
endless plastic skylights and an outside that seems to be draped
in chain mail.
|
--Sunday, 30 April 00--
Smile came to the Grand on-time and we had the best language training
yet. We watched 'Bullitt', ate chebop, walked into the only part
of the city I have not visited before (north and east, up the hill), had
a Schweppes -- and then he left to hang curtains for Kimeta.
--Monday, 01 May 00--
Smile forgets things, things like personal possessions, keys, jackets,
those kind of things. Once when we were shopping in the market, he put
his house keys down and I picked them up, wondering how long it would
be before he noticed. It was more than an hour later.
--Wednesday, 03 May 00--
As I approached, a bellman was ushering a newly arrived guest into the
elevator and the bellman ushered me in after the new guest. I pressed
3 on the controls and the new guest said "Six would do," so
I pressed 7 then 6 and told him, "you have to press 7 then 6 to get
it to stop at 6. Welcome to Kosovo." I call this "Kosovo Normal."
Had lunch with Margaret, Brian Ahern (who stopped for a haircut) and Hilary
(who arrived late) in a new restaurant. The lasagna was quite good and
the conversation genial.
Tonight Smile came by and we walked over to the Monaco where I bought
a Herald Tribune for me and a USA Today with its heavy sports section
for Smile. We walked over to the Brooklyn pub, ordered a beer (Basic survival
phrase: ftoft schkupit = cold beer) and read our respective papers.
We had some intensive language training and then watched the last part
of 'Bullitt'. We ambled up Mother Theresa Street but the electricity
was off and walking in the dark was not very pleasant.
We went back to the Grand and sat inside. We chatted about my departure.
Smile got up and shook hands with people at a table and came back. A while
later he said something I didn't catch and walked the other way.
Twenty minutes later, no Smile, and both our beers were gone. I paid the
bill, and went to my floor where I found Smile, somewhat upset. He said
he had been tapping on my door for 5 minutes. He said that he had been
talking to an Albanian friend and that he kept telling him that he had
left someone in the bar and had to go back. His friend said that the person
would wait for Smile. Ultimately Smile mentioned that the person waiting
was an American. "Why didn't you tell me?" his friend asked,
"Go immediately!" So Albanians note the difference in leaving
a foreigner waiting and one of their own. I conjecture that in a society
in which almost no Albanian worked for ten years, there was nothing to
rush for at all.
Joe
|